How to get a girlfriend if you're a hopeless nerd

Whatever. Getting women is not a mystery.

Think about the kinds of girls you know. Some of them instantly make you go "bleugh" and some make you go "mmm!" You just have to change yourself from a bleugh to an mmm kind of man. Improve your outward appearance: stand up straight and walk with confidence, exercise to stay in shape, put some effort into grooming yourself and wear interesting clothes and accessories. Physical attraction is just the initial connection. Any girl worth dating long term is going to need an intellectual connection with you. So be aware of weird eccentricities you may have and don't let them out on the first meeting. Of course you have to "be yourself," just be a little more suave the first time. It helps to have interesting things to talk about to keep her interested. Sports, projects you have done, hiking... things that say "I am active and fun" usually work best. Something like rock climbing makes for a good first date.

Cliff notes: Have confidence in yourself. Do fun things and have interesting hobbies. Exercise to maintain health. In that order of importance. That's about it.

Whatever. Getting women is not a mystery. Think about the kinds of girls you know. Some of them instantly make you go "bleugh" and some make you go "mmm!" You just have to change yourself from a bleugh to an mmm kind of man. Improve your outward appearance: stand up straight and walk with confidence, exercise to stay in shape, put some effort into grooming yourself and wear interesting clothes and accessories. Physical attraction is just the initial connection. Any girl worth dating long term is going to need an intellectual connection with you. So be aware of weird eccentricities you may have and don't let them out on the first meeting. Of course you have to "be yourself," just be a little more suave the first time. It helps to have interesting things to talk about to keep her interested. Sports, projects you have done, hiking... things that say "I am active and fun" usually work best. Something like rock climbing makes for a good first date. Cliff notes: Have confidence in yourself. Do fun things and have interesting hobbies. Exercise to maintain health. In that order of importance. That's about it.

Excellent advice and rep given. Mmhmm.

So your advice is: Completely change yourself to a jock or jock-like person. :P SOUNDS EZ ENUF!

Humans are hard wired to respect physical ability. Annoying fact of life.

You don't have to be a jock, skateboarders and swimmers are a good example of "active" types of non-jock guys. But the most important thing is holding yourself in high esteem.

My bad. So you need to change yourself into an athlete in general. Yea sure, if you have to entirely change your lifestyle to be someone different, then you probably will have more success. However, otherwise, you just need to be patient. Your probability of success is not great, but if you get rejected and are discouraged to the point of not trying anymore, then your odds approach 0. Just keep trying and don't give up, and you will find someone. Even if you follow Grav's advice to the T, you probably won't have a 100% success rate. But it will but much higher because women are definitely attracted to those things (they're slaves to their instincts, fo sho. But then again I guess we all are).

These kids are still young, so they can do it. Example: slaynish.

Also cocaine. Chicks love it.

You laugh, but this is the fucking truth.

But kids: don't do hard drugs. It's expensive and fucks you up.