The Switch from Bugged/Hacked Pally to Legit

Alright, well, I've done it before, and yes, I'm going to do it again. I want to make a legit dueling Pally. This will be a pure Melee'er, with Fanatacism Aura, and attack switch from Charge to Smite to Zealing away. All of those are maxed right now too.

I have a decent weapon right now:

Cruel Mythical Sword
181-216 Dmg
30% IAS
325% ED
8 Min Dmg
Eth'ed

First question: Should I stick with that and an Ethereal BStar for tougher opponents, or should I socket Griz's Caddy with Eth and 2 x 40/15's?

Next question: For my armor, should I use a 40/15 Shaft, or 40/15 09 Pally Valor, or a 160/60 with 24 FHR?

I'm also thinking, 8/15 String, Gore Riders, Highlord's, Cham'ed SS, and I still have to craft my Gloves and Rings, but I won't stop until I get 2 X 11 LL with nice Str and Life mod rings, and a dual leech / 20 IAS / etc. moded pair of gloves.

Now, should I use Gores, or go with War Travs? I hear War Travs are good for more dmg, but I need the Deadly Strike Mod. Opinions are very welcomed.

Next, for my gloves, what is the most LL you can get on them? I think it's 6, but I can't remember?

Is it 48 FHR for 5 fps? If not, what is the first break limit for FHR I should go for?

About how much life should I have when done with charms and everything? LL? Deadly Strike (without Fury Weapon of course)?

Thanks!

Oh, and if there is anything I missed that is particularly important, fill me in, thanks!