Don't do that do Griz's Caddy..You can get better weapon for pally. If you can, try and get a Cruel Zerker/Sword with Lo Eth

What helm are you using? If you have 75% DR with all the gear then you can forget the shaft and go with 160/60. Then

Use Gore Rider. You need the DS. War Trav mainly for Zon/Asn/Baba.

Blood Gloves is 6%LL max. Would be nice if it has some CB. It helps, nonetheless.

It is actually 32% for 3 frames. 152% for 2.

Try and get to somewhere around:
900 ~ 1400 life
Try and get it to more than 1k, you'll be fine.
32~45+ Life leech
~40% DS

What charms are you planning to use?