Banging Friend's Siblings

I agree with the 21+ thing. Those individuals usually end up making themselves huge targets. It's like hunting with grapeshot; you're bound to bag something.

I'm currently 20. And I look like I'm 16. So my personal preference is like 17 - maybe 23

If you're 20 you should probably look for someone around your age. I've found most commonly that the maturity level goes down as age is lowered. Plus dating a minor is just downright creepy.

The problem being that all the 19-21 year olds I know are either guys or I don't like them at all.

The problem being that all the 19-21 year olds I know are either guys or I don't like them at all.

Aim high, my friend. Plus, they will come in time. Just focus on building your confidence and be an approachable guy. Girls love confidence and guys who have something interesting to chat about. Always make the conversation about her and actually listen to what she has to say. When she feels her opinion is valid then you're in. Be sincere too. Like you said, you don't like most of them. Don't go lying to yourself man, be honest!