Would you?

No, never with a somebody's wife, etc who is fighting for my right to flirt. If they break up, then def, but until then, no.

I would say regardless of the guy's situation, the chick is completely at fault. That's where my point is heading. As shady and shitty as it might be for a guy to hook up with some chick, it's just that: hooking up with some random chick. It is 99.999999999999% of the time going to be in the chick's court and she decides if she wants to or not, the random guy in the equation (you) should not be at fault.

"I don't normally go for chicks with boyfriends, but she'd been flirting hard
with some guy in a bar for two hours, so how good could that relationship be?!
(And by the way, if a woman comes onto you who's in a relationship,
mark my words... if she doesn't have sex with you, then she'll find some other
guy to hook up with and satisfy her carnal desires. Her current boyfriend is
unsatisfying to her or else she wouldn't be flirting with other guys.)"

I would say regardless of the guy's situation, the chick is completely at fault. That's where my point is heading. As shady and shitty as it might be for a guy to hook up with some chick, it's just that: hooking up with some random chick. It is 99.999999999999% of the time going to be in the chick's court and she decides if she wants to or not, the random guy in the equation (you) should not be at fault.

That really depends. If you don't know that she's got a husband, that's one thing. If you know, and you do it anyway, she's not the only one at fault.

If she is married, don't do it. Same with fiancee. If it is just a BF, then find some really good reason (Drunk, high, etc.) that you did it. Then send the guy a letter explaining and saying sorry. The last part is a save your own skin precaution. BTW, say his GF was drunk too. That would make her have a reason also.

If she is married, don't do it. Same with fiancee. If it is just a BF, then find some really good reason (Drunk, high, etc.) that you did it. Then send the guy a letter explaining and saying sorry. The last part is a save your own skin precaution. BTW, say his GF was drunk too. That would make her have a reason also.

Asamin, that's not good reason at all.

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Only way I'd hit it is if I didn't know (it would be an 'Oh, shit' situation) or if she broke up with him.

That really depends. If you don't know that she's got a husband, that's one thing. If you know, and you do it anyway, she's not the only one at fault.

That's how I see it. But the girl is still about 85% at faut.


11,000 posts. I win