Smoking, childcare, and ruining one's relationship with a threesome

Which is my sentiments to sex. I don't mind playing with other so long as the other person is around with me, but one-on-one is usually an intimate thing. Volls: I agree with you. It IS like an overglorified fuckbuddy. I think open relationships are equivalent to being able to cheat, but with permission, so to speak. This is quite a different topic from smoking and with children around.

Bringing another person in bed with you and your significant other is commiting relationship suicide.

yea, im not really into the whole "open-relationship" thing either. His dad has always been with a lot of women, but I'm pretty sure he understands that if he wants to see other women then we'll work it out to where he'll move out and he'll just help me pay the bills....but you never know how that would really work...

For the most part it is, but imo that depends on how confident and comfortable you are in your relationship. I'm all for being sexually adventurous, but not if the other person in the relationship is uncomfortable with it, or if that person isn't there at all and there's another party involved.

I dont think i could ever involve another girl. I would end up either fighting or crying and fighting. . One time a few years ago kaneda and I weren't talking and he didn't know I was working in the movie theater and he brought his g/f there and at the time I had never felt so sick in my life. I couldn't breath it hurt so bad.

"A few years ago" how long have you been involved with this schmuck?

Jealousy is what makes it impossible.

I just don't see how a truly loving relationship between two people can involve a third person without having some serious trouble.

It can't, unless you're having a 3some. If your girl is down for it, then there shouldn't be any problems. Just pay more attention to your woman then the other girl.

So you're telling me if I go tell Nikki I want to have another woman in bed with us and she says yes, if I do it there won't be problems later?

Women rarely say what they mean. If anything she would just do it for me, and it would end up ruining our relationship.

For the most part it is, but imo that depends on how confident and comfortable you are in your relationship. I'm all for being sexually adventurous, but not if the other person in the relationship is uncomfortable with it, or if that person isn't there at all and there's another party involved.

Jessifer, ride em hard cowgirl.

Actually, I really doubt that I myself would ever be truely willing to participate in a threesome.

Actually, I really doubt that I myself would ever be truely willing to participate in a threesome.

Why? It's a blast.

Why? It's a blast.

I'm not doubting that a threesome would be a ton of fun, and I'm not saying they can't happen without problems, just not with someone you love.

If it's just you and a couple fuckbuddies, who cares. Have a blast.

Bringing another person in bed with you and your significant other is commiting relationship suicide.

I don't think group experimentation will kill a relationship, but I think enough one-on-one encounters without the other person will, especially when one person has paranoia and trust issues to begin with.

I don't think group experimentation will kill a relationship, but I think enough one-on-one encounters without the other person will, especially when one person has paranoia and trust issues to begin with.

I'm right and you're wrong.

And I think I'm right and that you're wrong. It goes in circles because neither of us will be able to convince the other that they're wrong or we'll be too stubborn to openly admit we had a change of opinion.

I agree w/K_A. :P lol

I've known couple who have been together for several years and who love each other and sometimes have group sessions with friends of theirs, but their love hasn't waned.

I don't think its healthy, and it would ruin any relationship i was in. I coudln't stand seeing my lover look at someone else in a sexual way...eh not happening. ugh, actually almost upsets me to think about it . although i guess that if i thought it would make him happy i'd do it, but then never want to do him again. lol

Dear God ...I'd have to say I agree with KA too. What the fuck is wrong with the world?

A lot is wrong with the world.