Cheat with me

Are you talking about becoming a lesbian or am I completely misinturpreting?

ya, i just couldnt do it. lol. I dont know, it seems that I've made up my mind to still be with kaneda......but i still think about it all the time and im probably going to be twice as bitchy all the time.

Well...since you're going to actually try a relationship again, I wouldn't recommend throwing it in his face everytime you get pissed at him. It really wouldn't last long that way.

Just a thought.

Wow giving the asshole another chance. He must be amazing in bed.

Wow giving the asshole another chance. He must be amazing in bed.

Just ask the married chick he fucked.

If you really take him back I'll lose the little bit of respect I've got left for the women of the world. You women just ask to be hurt.

Ding ding ding!

Just ask the married chick he fucked. If you really take him back I'll lose the little bit of respect I've got left for the women of the world. You women just ask to be hurt.

It's not like that. i mean, you guys' dont think it has anything to do with the fact that we're a four hour drive away from each other? he's moving here this wed. and getting a job at my work.....and i guess if i suspect anything ill just shoot him or something haha.

Klo, your post about wanting to change him to fit your lifestyle really pissed me off =/ You can't do that. You can't just change someone. They have to initiate that change on their own. If you try to change him you will just end up like this again, and you wont be happy. Sure you will have happy moments with him.. But is that worth it? You are better off going your seperate ways and finding a guy that seems to fit you better. Its hard if not impossible to change someone if they don't want it. So... Stop trying =/

It's not like that. i mean, you guys' dont think it has anything to do with the fact that we're a four hour drive away from each other? he's moving here this wed. and getting a job at my work.....and i guess if i suspect anything ill just shoot him or something haha.

Whether he is 4 hours away or living with you, you'll never know for sure if he's being honest and loyal to you because the trust is gone now. If you think you'll be able to know if he's cheating just because he's closer to you, you're crazy. Some married people have affairs for years and years, start two families with two different people, and their spouses never find out.

He's not going to change just because you want him to or because you think you can change him, he has to decide to change for himself.

And yes, women do set themselves up to be hurt a lot, I watch it happen every day, and the sad thing is they do it over and over too.

I get the link I was trying to find!

Lasses seem to latch onto someone, and not want to leave him (no offence Klo). Take my friend, or most of the girls ____ over in the Life Discussion forum.