hmmm, i think it's too close either way. another thing is, i dont plan on being married young....at all....and at all costs i dont really wanna feel married cuz if im gonna deal with women's bullshit i kinda at least wanna be out on my own, semi-established, so at least i can feel like an adult to deal with the adult kind of relationships......so i guess i just dont know if i wanna keep dragging out something that i dont want now, or break it off with no good reason.