Good job on that walking to the pond thing.........I wouldnt have thought of that! I bet that made a very good impression on her.
Also, don't talk to her that much on aim or the phone.......in fact, the phone should only be used to set up meetings or just random "hi how are you"....convos shouldnt be more than 5 mins!
Online.....always say you're busy reading something and kinda ignore her a lil bit.....like reply after she send a few msgs..
Also, don't talk to her that much on aim or the phone.......in fact, the phone should only be used to set up meetings or just random "hi how are you"....convos shouldnt be more than 5 mins!
Online.....always say you're busy reading something and kinda ignore her a lil bit.....like reply after she send a few msgs..
O.o why? I want to be her friend more than anything... And after we have a strong friendship we will see what happens.
You'd end up going crazy if you went to my school then. It seems to be the rule that you become very good friends with a girl before going out with them.
You get some really undeserving bastards somehow making friends and then going out with girls who deserve a hell of a lot better.
NO! If you're going to be her friend first you will just become her bitch, she will use you to get favors and maybe go out or whatever but that's it. If you want to be her bf make that clear from the beginning, rarely does someone go from a good friend to bf.
In a serious relationship your partner is supposed to be your best friend.
Hey... Alot of people when they break up arent friends afterwards becasue they weren't friends before. Also, it is very likely that you will end up marrying someone in your circle of friends rather than someone else. And hey... I would rather be her friend than her boy friend. I'm not one of those sex crazed guys
Well.. if you rather be her friend than her boyfriend why go on a date with her? You will be confusing that girl so much...
Think about it from the girls perspective. You take her on dates and talk with her all the time, but you dont take the next step? Girls usually expect the man to take action but you wont. She's not going to like this situation and will be confused as to what you really want with her. In the end she will probably find someone else who does want to be her boyfriend.
I'm just telling you how it generally is, I could of course be completely wrong on this with you're situation. Ah well... Just do whatever, and learn from it.
Well actually in this situation you are abit off. You hold valid points however, she is currently recovering from a long relationship that went bad. I'm trying to be there for her whenever she needs me, as a friend. We are both very interested in eachother but at this point in time she told me flat out that she wasn't ready to get involved with someone yet. I accept that and therefore I am trying my hardest to be a good friend. I don't know what that night was... Because to tell you the truth, I'm also confused. But such is life right?
Edit: Her ex boyfriend is one of those shitbag types who no one likes. But she is still trying because she wants what she once had. I think it will take her a while to get over him, which is another reason why she doesnt want to be in a relationship with me right now. Not untill she can devote her whole heart to me.
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