First date... Ever!?!?!?

Movies are very easy and very good dates. You don't have to say much so you don't have to worry about saying something stupid. Comedy movies are good for first dates, since you'll be laughing together and she'll be having fun, unless it's a horrible comedy and then you can just laugh with her at how stupid the movie was. If you've already dated a few times then you can go to a romance/comedy or horror movie, since those are always winners. Romance/comedies and pure chick-flicks are great, girls always love them, I know this because Nikki is always melty and romantic when we watch them, and she's all over me when it's over. Horror movies are good too because she'll be clinging onto you during the really scary parts.

Basically, you can't really mess up a movie date, so they are always good.

Ya, but you can't really get to know her and have interaction unless you have some sort of follow up after the movie.

Actually, despite having "gone out" with my ex, I've never had a real date either O.o

Coffee houses are always good for follow-ups after the movie or before. There is one right across from the theatre where I live.

Ya, but there soo cliche, and I don't drink coffee so what do I "do" while we're conversating? She has a coffee to keep her occupied, I get what a hot chocolate.

Try something new. Try an escamocha. If nothing else, ya, get a hot chocolate. You don't go to a coffee shop for the coffee (unless you get it to go). You go for the atmosphere and the chance to sit and talk.

The more cozy the place, the better. If there are couches, go for that.

Movies are very easy and very good dates. You don't have to say much so you don't have to worry about saying something stupid. Comedy movies are good for first dates, since you'll be laughing together and she'll be having fun, unless it's a horrible comedy and then you can just laugh with her at how stupid the movie was. If you've already dated a few times then you can go to a romance/comedy or horror movie, since those are always winners. Romance/comedies and pure chick-flicks are great, girls always love them, I know this because Nikki is always melty and romantic when we watch them, and she's all over me when it's over. Horror movies are good too because she'll be clinging onto you during the really scary parts. Basically, you can't really mess up a movie date, so they are always good.

yes but in this case you already know the girl, and know that she wants to be with you....


In the first date with someone u have never met, never go to the movies......go do something, or just relax and chat. NEVER MOVIES

My first date with one girl that I didn't know at all was movies and mall, and it turned into a 16 month relationship. Movies can work, but do something else as well so that you actually have time to talk and get to know her.

good luck dude hope all goes well. movies are good for first dates cause u dont have to say alot, but thats also the downfall of them. make sure u at least go out after and offer to pay. They love that shit

good luck dude hope all goes well. movies are good for first dates cause u dont have to say alot, but thats also the downfall of them. make sure u at least go out after and offer to pay. They love that shit

Now that's one place a lot of people will debate with you. I've been told by numerous people that, contrary to popular belief, not paying for things on a date is a good thing to do. I can't explain the logic or testify to whether it actually works, as I've never tried it, but like I said, I heard it from more than just a handful of people.

Maybe when people pay a lot for things on a date the other half will become used to having things bought for them and end up expecting it during the relationship. Then when the "payee" hasn't the cash, the relationship will begin to break up as the "non-payee" starts wondering why they aren't having things bought for them - "You don't love me any more!"

Just a horribly random guestimate there. Don't quote me on it.

I dunno, I'm a big sucker for chivalry. I always offer to pay when I'm on a date, at least if I'm interested in the girl. If I'm just out with a friend we split it.

Now that's one place a lot of people will debate with you. I've been told by numerous people that, contrary to popular belief, not paying for things on a date is a good thing to do. I can't explain the logic or testify to whether it actually works, as I've never tried it, but like I said, I heard it from more than just a handful of people.

It all depends on the girl, some girls get annoyed when guys open doors for them and pay for stuff and things like that, I'm lucky enough to have one that doesn't mind me being a gentleman, because I am one.

so in conclusion- girls suck when it comes to dating. Cause us guys can never figure them out. Anyways, i like to offer just so its out on the table (to pay). If they let me, then id be happy to pay, if not idont mind pocketing the extra cash

Now that's one place a lot of people will debate with you. I've been told by numerous people that, contrary to popular belief, not paying for things on a date is a good thing to do. I can't explain the logic or testify to whether it actually works, as I've never tried it, but like I said, I heard it from more than just a handful of people.

Girls pay for me all the time =/

Is kind of like a 50:50 thing......lets say if we go to dinner, I'll pay, then we go to movies, they'll pay. I dont tell them to pay either, they usually offer to.