Wow, you got a weird one there. She won't let you perform oral on her... Holy shit, that is unheard of to me at least. Heh, I guess some chicks are just like that.
My girlfriend won't let me perform oral on her. She considers that sex. We do other stuff, but not that; she wants to be a virgin when she gets married so the wait was well worth it.
Anyways, do you guys consider oral to be sex? IE, you won't be a virgin once you've done it.