Titusfied said:
...with a female that has brains (Yes, she is hot, and yes, they do exist), the conversations can be quite invigorating and stimulating at the same time.
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a relationship also has to do with what you are as well,
for example with titus. he is one smart guy so of coarse the woman he is going out with (who is also smart), he finds more qualities in her than any other ...and yes thay (woman with brains) do exist, but not that many (los angeles practicaly has NO women who are smart, thay all take your money and other resources and go on to another guy like a bacteria),
which comes to one night stands....
Silverjinx18 said:
...one night stands are very close minded...you don't even give it a chance to see what she's like...or if it was REALLY worth it...)
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not ALL one night stands are closed minded.
in most situations, both persons just agree with just sex for that "one night" either because thay had a very good time together and wanted to end the day with sex.
come on, if the day was perfect, you saw the sunset, you had great parking for the movies, dinner was perfect, perfect everytrhing, even perfect weather, shouldnt you end the day with some loving?? and i know that most of the one night stands are NOT like that, its mostly just sex, its just that, even i had a one night stand with my girlfriend's best friend. i have to say, that ONE DAY was PERFECT.
and when i broke up with my girlfriend (not because of that reason, just another, in fact, she STILL doen't know i had sex with her best friend) i didn't feel as bad. i tried to get with her best friends again and found out that she also had a b/f at the time, which she is still with.
so no hard feelings just one dam perfect day we both injoyed till the end :-P
one night stands only hurt the person when thay think there is more of a relationship the next day, i mean if YOU know all she wants is sex and SHE knows that all YOU want is sex, dude dont be expecting anything more the next day period!!!
and as of Kaneda, if you DO NOT what your girlfriend to talk about "I want to get married", or Oh, I want that car, you gots to make up a conversation thats worth while, something that both you and your girlfriend like talking about, and i know that its hard to keep up with "good" conversations, thats the reason why thay go back to that i want to get married or i want that car situation.
trust me, women who are" ignorant, materialistic, self indulgent, close minded, immature chicks" are WAY much easier to find, women like the one titus has, is close to impossible to find.
so titus, make sure you keep that one
as for me, i know what i want, and i wont stop untill i find one. there is that saying, "all the good ones are taken, you justa have to wait untill one gets loose.....
untill then, all i get are one night stands