How was your year?

This has been the most sporradic year of my entire life. I don't know whether to call it shitty, or to call it good. I have had the best time with friends and stuff... But my dad got remarried... my step mom had a miscarriage last night (still really fucking sad), my grandma died, my cousin died in a wreck, my friend died from OD'ing, her boyfriend cmomitted suicide... the list fucking goes on. Jesus fucking christ. However, there have been many good things happening this year that I am thankful for. I refuse to rate this year.