pathetic newbie...and angry

hello all,

first, i want to confess that i know absolutely NOTHING about hacking or anything.... and so i humbly arrive at your domain

i'd understand if you'd simply ignore me or dismiss me

here's my dilemna:

my wife of 14 years is cheating on me...i have a VERY strong suspicion

neither one of us are computer savvy, but i recently found out how to check the history in our web browser ( i know...pathetic...i told you...but i don't know where else to turn)

anyway, she frequents a forum that appears to have only a dozen or so members... now, i have NO interest in hacking, or whatever it is called that implies any malicious intent...i just want to read what's going on

can ANYONE help me!?....

i'd post the url of the forum but i don't think it's allowed...anyway, i humbly ask for anyone's help