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js1268

js1268 said:

hello all,

first, i want to confess that i know absolutely NOTHING about hacking or anything.... and so i humbly arrive at your domain

i'd understand if you'd simply ignore me or dismiss me

here's my dilemna:

my wife of 14 years is cheating on me...i have a VERY strong suspicion

neither one of us are computer savvy, but i recently found out how to check the history in our web browser ( i know...pathetic...i told you...but i don't know where else to turn)

anyway, she frequents a forum that appears to have only a dozen or so members... now, i have NO interest in hacking, or whatever it is called that implies any malicious intent...i just want to read what's going on

can ANYONE help me!?....

i'd post the url of the forum but i don't think it's allowed...anyway, i humbly ask for anyone's help

Go to the forum, see what she's posting. If you really want to figure out what she's up to, find a nice keylogger. There are plenty of keyloggers that are made specifically for parents to monitor their kids, and that should work especially if she isn't very computer savvy.

However, I'd suggest that unless you've got some relatively hard evidence, don't do much snooping. You'll see something that you see as incriminating that might actually just be innocent, you confront her about it, and she then knows you've been snooping on her, and for no reason at all. Don't break the trust in the relationship, as that's one of the most important things in a relationship.

I'm curious, why don't you trust her? Has she given you any reason not to? Are you just a naturally jealous person? If you don't trust her, even if she isn't cheating, there may be some issues that you need to take care of.