How to get a girlfriend if you're a hopeless nerd

http://video.msn.com/video.aspx?mkt=...m_25-34&fg=rss

good video.

I have to ask what you typed in a search engine to find this video.

That was pretty good, and true. A girl doesn't really care what you enjoy (unless you find one that likes everything you do).

I have to ask what you typed in a search engine to find this video.

Saw it on MSN messenger.

http://video.msn.com/video.aspx?mkt=...m_25-34&fg=rss good video.

I'm really sad now...
because I don't want to make all those changes...
and the video suggest I make all of them....

Oh women will make you change, or they'll not be very happy. It's a game to them.

Oh women will make you change, or they'll not be very happy. It's a game to them.

what if they're dorks too. >_>'

what if they're dorks too. >_>'

Well if you don't mind hanging out/going out with girl nerds and such, be my guest. As long as you like her, that's all that matters. But unless you're too busy worrying about how you look to other people and how you will look with her, then change is your other option.

I always think of this analogy when it comes to things like this:

Say by some matter of chance, you were going out with Megan Fox


Would you still go out with her if everybody else thought she was an ugly bitch?

Well if you don't mind hanging out/going out with girl nerds and such, be my guest. As long as you like her, that's all that matters. But unless you're too busy worrying about how you look to other people and how you will look with her, then change is your other option. I always think of this analogy when it comes to things like this: Say by some matter of chance, you were going out with Megan Fox Would you still go out with her if everybody else thought she was an ugly bitch?

would she still look like that?
If so, then who cares what anyone thinks, I'd put her head through a wall.

You're gonna put Megan Fox's head through a wall? I don't think so man, she's a powerful woman!

You're gonna put Megan Fox's head through a wall? I don't think so man, she's a powerful woman!

No such thing as powerful women. *Is soon murdered by 100's of Lesbians and tom boys*

Whatever. Getting women is not a mystery.

Think about the kinds of girls you know. Some of them instantly make you go "bleugh" and some make you go "mmm!" You just have to change yourself from a bleugh to an mmm kind of man. Improve your outward appearance: stand up straight and walk with confidence, exercise to stay in shape, put some effort into grooming yourself and wear interesting clothes and accessories. Physical attraction is just the initial connection. Any girl worth dating long term is going to need an intellectual connection with you. So be aware of weird eccentricities you may have and don't let them out on the first meeting. Of course you have to "be yourself," just be a little more suave the first time. It helps to have interesting things to talk about to keep her interested. Sports, projects you have done, hiking... things that say "I am active and fun" usually work best. Something like rock climbing makes for a good first date.

Cliff notes: Have confidence in yourself. Do fun things and have interesting hobbies. Exercise to maintain health. In that order of importance. That's about it.

Whatever. Getting women is not a mystery. Think about the kinds of girls you know. Some of them instantly make you go "bleugh" and some make you go "mmm!" You just have to change yourself from a bleugh to an mmm kind of man. Improve your outward appearance: stand up straight and walk with confidence, exercise to stay in shape, put some effort into grooming yourself and wear interesting clothes and accessories. Physical attraction is just the initial connection. Any girl worth dating long term is going to need an intellectual connection with you. So be aware of weird eccentricities you may have and don't let them out on the first meeting. Of course you have to "be yourself," just be a little more suave the first time. It helps to have interesting things to talk about to keep her interested. Sports, projects you have done, hiking... things that say "I am active and fun" usually work best. Something like rock climbing makes for a good first date. Cliff notes: Have confidence in yourself. Do fun things and have interesting hobbies. Exercise to maintain health. In that order of importance. That's about it.

Excellent advice and rep given. Mmhmm.

So your advice is: Completely change yourself to a jock or jock-like person. :P SOUNDS EZ ENUF!

Humans are hard wired to respect physical ability. Annoying fact of life.

You don't have to be a jock, skateboarders and swimmers are a good example of "active" types of non-jock guys. But the most important thing is holding yourself in high esteem.

My bad. So you need to change yourself into an athlete in general. Yea sure, if you have to entirely change your lifestyle to be someone different, then you probably will have more success. However, otherwise, you just need to be patient. Your probability of success is not great, but if you get rejected and are discouraged to the point of not trying anymore, then your odds approach 0. Just keep trying and don't give up, and you will find someone. Even if you follow Grav's advice to the T, you probably won't have a 100% success rate. But it will but much higher because women are definitely attracted to those things (they're slaves to their instincts, fo sho. But then again I guess we all are).

These kids are still young, so they can do it. Example: slaynish.

Also cocaine. Chicks love it.

You laugh, but this is the fucking truth.

But kids: don't do hard drugs. It's expensive and fucks you up.

I know it is.