also, i'm trying to be better groomed as of late. Ever since I started telling my friends a secret of mine :/ But I think that the tips Neko gave are very effective. And Kaos, pull your face out of the cloud of smoke ;) That could help some :D

If I get out of the smoke...I might die of breathing fresh air.

iron lungs, maybe Kaos ;)

Well, silly, first of all we have to get you out of those awwwful clothes. Try shopping at some stupid high end place that's simply FABULOUS.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Get some nice clothes and a hairstyle, that should make alot of difference already. Just wear whatever makes u feel comfertable and still be a bit classy.

Cut your hair.

ok, I have already had my hair cut, the pic is a few months old. Second of all, I can't have a hair cut because it exposes bald spots all the time >:|

Be like that guy in the commercial who has a comb-over. He cowboys-up and shaves it.

I hate comb-overs >:| I've done that all my life. I want some style in my hair, but make it look messy, yet well groomed.

Shave it off, if people make fun of you for looking cooler than they do say you will call in your neo-nazi friends.
I know so many bald ppl at the store I work at it looks good do that, whats the worst that could happen.

...dude...I love my hair. I would kill anyone who tried to shave it off. My hair is apart of my personality.

Well then you arent devoted, do what you want, the thing is if the right girl walks around (never happens) she will like you for your personality, not your hair.


HA HA HAH A HAH

Even the "right" girl is likely going to go for looks in one way or another, far more than you think. There's no need to ruin your looks to narrow down your options.

the thing is, i want to look more attractive, make the girls look at me, but still keep the same personality (the one I don't use around you people :D).

Hmm, yeah. I agree with the clothes bit, and if you can't cut your hair any, I guess you could style it a little. I don't know.. Yeah, contacts are a good thing...hmm, what else. Pretty much the things stated in this thread are all good.

Physical appearance is how 90% of people base their first impression of you.

Also, in a relationship, physical attraction is (usually) the basis of how most people get talking. ^_^

Of course. People can talk the righteousness right out of their bullshit selves all they want. We all know that physical attraction is the what people notice first and how people get together. There are some cases where after you are friends with someone, they tend to look better because of their personality, but most poeple you meet won't get to that point...

Want chicks? Don't shower.

since you know everything, i'm doing the opposite of what you reccomend.