I put 110 str , 100 vit may not be enough , no energy, and rest on dex i have like 280 =\
You can survive with less vitality and more dex if your gear can support life in Hell. I don't remember what my dex is w/o gear or weapons, but it is about 525 or so with all her stuff. She is a lvl 99 zon built for PvM in patch 9. She has found life in patch 10 to be somewhat mroe challenging. The str listed above is about right, depending on your armor, and definitely zero to energy.
Seems like no one plays a zon anymore, all I see are variations on a theme with necros and pallys.
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