1) I am still confused as to why Howard Stern is on your list.
2) I'm not trying to be smooth Bob, I'm just saying, in the beginning it will be "very special" for both of you, I'm sure, but after a while, you will just get urges to fuck and that is all it will be.
No way are they just "ok". Once you are older, you will realize the difference (You said you are 14 and a virgin, so I'm assuming you don't have a very acquired taste for women yet).