Bars

Actually, go to the picture's thread.

He could probably put a hump on your back.

True, my friends and I were talking about all the random guys that try/do buy us drinks...one friend felt guilty, the other and I didn't. Reason being, they're trying to buy us drinks, we're not like "hey, wanna buy me a drink?"

The bottom line is that the guy finds you to be attractive and buying you a drink is the most socially acceptable ice-breaker there is at the bar. I would hate it terribly if a woman accepted a drink I bought her and didn't even say 'Thank You'.

I'm not too up on bar life though, so I won't comment past saying that friends shouldn't be pulling the kind of thing Gruesome's lady friends did. Friends normally won't mind buying you a few drinks if you can't afford it and are honest with them.

hmmm I guess it depends on the girl but some of my lady friends get mad at me if I try to pay for anything for them. I suppose some girls are just mooches and aren't very considerate. Usually though if you aren't whipping out the cash for them they should pay for their own drinks.

hmmm I guess it depends on the girl but some of my lady friends get mad at me if I try to pay for anything for them. I suppose some girls are just mooches and aren't very considerate. Usually though if you aren't whipping out the cash for them they should pay for their own drinks.

It depends on personality, some people just dislike charity or your lady friends may be crazy feminists.

He's gotta have a hump on his back or something... geez.

HAHA i actually laughed at that. There are plenty of pictures of me on this site, i just dont feel like look around for one. I was just venting because the girls here (Long Island) have been spoon feed thier entire lives, so if they dont get free shit, then they complain non stop untill DADDY pays for it. In our case (Guys around the age of 21), we are just being polite and offering to buy ONE round. But these girls expect ALL rounds to be paid off, by me or some other guy. All im asking is if I buy a round for you, entertain me for a bit with a casual conversation. It doesnt have to be deep or meaningful, just random BS. But like i said on my first post, the situation didnt involve me. It was my friend. He bought this girl a 7$ drink and she didnt even come by to say thanks. It pissed me off.

This is why I don't even bother trying to meet chicks in bars. Well, this, and the fact that single chicks who do the bar/club scene are generally tramps (an opinion likely influenced by the fact that I'm in goddamned Pittsburgh). I'm working on this whole "looking for smart, sexy girls at a museum or library" theory.

This is why I don't even bother trying to meet chicks in bars. Well, this, and the fact that single chicks who do the bar/club scene are generally tramps (an opinion likely influenced by the fact that I'm in goddamned Pittsburgh). I'm working on this whole "looking for smart, sexy girls at a museum or library" theory.

Sounds like the quest for the holy grail imo. Tell me if you are successful. Usually its a trade off between looks and smarts but there are occasionally some cuties that have some intelligence. You just have to be lucky to find them.

It's not simply looks and smarts, though. There's a level of charisma that must be there. If not, everything else just goes to hell. Take, for instance, a young lady that I worked with until very recently. She was attractive and intelligent (at least, I assumed so, as she is a pharmacy student), but she had the unfortunate tendency to use terms such as "gay," "retarded," and, well, "ballsack," in public at volume levels that were clearly unacceptable. Imagine the looks on the faces of suburban pharmacy customers when this pretty young intern refers to herself as a "retard" while engaging in a transaction or yells out "ballsack" while having a conversation in front of a line of 5 customers. And no, she does not have Tourette's Syndrome.
At any rate, back to my original point: looks and intelligence must be complimented by class...and I guess I'm going to be single for the rest of my damn life. Shit.

Well I suppose I consider charm to be a given. I was just refering to the fact that many beautiful girls are as dumb as hell and the not so good looking ones tend to be smarter. Either or could have some charisma/charm to them though.

Dude, I always randomly yell out ballsack. What's wrong with that?

Dude, I always randomly yell out ballsack. What's wrong with that?

I wouldn't expect Vault Dweller to buy you a second drink then.

Well, fine. Like I wanted one anyway..

How the hell do you get any chix if you dwell in a vault..?

How the hell do you get any chix if you dwell in a vault..?

There were chicks in the Vault too, otherwise that would defeat the entire purpose of the Vault.

LOL.

Tryin' to lock em in so they dont run away, eh volls?

Well, Vault Dweller refers to the Fallout series where some humans paid for Vault spots in case of an apocalyptic nuclear war.

The Vault people were essentially expected to recolonize and populate the post-apocalyptic waste.

Oh.

Well, hell. What do I know?

It's not simply looks and smarts, though. There's a level of charisma that must be there. If not, everything else just goes to hell. Take, for instance, a young lady that I worked with until very recently. She was attractive and intelligent (at least, I assumed so, as she is a pharmacy student), but she had the unfortunate tendency to use terms such as "gay," "retarded," and, well, "ballsack," in public at volume levels that were clearly unacceptable. Imagine the looks on the faces of suburban pharmacy customers when this pretty young intern refers to herself as a "retard" while engaging in a transaction or yells out "ballsack" while having a conversation in front of a line of 5 customers. And no, she does not have Tourette's Syndrome. At any rate, back to my original point: looks and intelligence must be complimented by class...and I guess I'm going to be single for the rest of my damn life. Shit.

Firstly, I can't believe a new member has actually showed up and continues to post decent material.

Secondly, not everyone is perfect. Looking for Ms. Perfect is just the wrong attitude. Everyone has their flaws, and granted, yelling obsenities isn't attractive, but I think you are taking it too far. I mean, I can agree with "ballsack", because that's just classless, but "retard" and "gay"? Who really cares? I wouldn't immediately take her off the possible gene pool reproduction list. My guess is that she is still young, and hasn't matured to the level you consider yourself to be.

If you find someone in the library or museum as you're trying right now, I'm happy for you, but don't hold your breathe. Even if you do, she'll probably end up being a complete bore, unless that's what you're looking for?

Meeting women in bars and/or clubs is normal. It's a social scene that is a common forum for meeting possible friends and love interests. Most of them aren't keepers, but it's more possible and likely to meet someone there than in museums and libraries...

The only time I refuse something (usually I say, "ok, but I get it next time")...but when I am seriously like "NO, i've got it"...its because I feel like the guy is expecting more than just friends, and its my way of saying its not.

As far as looking for a girl in a museam or library, good luck! :/

cuz grlz r dum

y wud a grl b in a lbrry or musm?