My relationship.. status.

Very excellent advice. I've talked with about 5-6 different girl buddies of mine today, and they've all said pretty much the same stuff, just focus on yourself, and maybe she just needs to work out her self, more-so.

So I guess that's all I need to do, it just like everything else in life that sucks, came out of nowhere and seemingly had no reasoning behind it.

Kaz is a lucky dude to have you, a girl with her head on seemingly straight, hopefully you can keep that common sense you posess...

it has its flaws sometimes...but, why wouldn't i be able to keep it?

Getting absorbed in somebody can affect your decisions, and how you think., atleast for me it does.

Getting absorbed in somebody can affect your decisions, and how you think., atleast for me it does.

it does for everyone i suppose, but sometimes its better to make yourself happy even if the other person wont be happy, i have a hard time with that

That's one thing I did ontice was becoming selfless around her, which sucks really I was moving too fast.

it really just depends on the situation, but being in a relationship means 50/50, so if she's happy and you're happy, then its all good. but if she's the only one happy and nothing is changing, then nothing is gonna change lol. no point in being in a miserable relationship, you would only end up hurting yourself. i hate my advice, too much truth to it, lol.

So pretty much, Tutti's saying to buy a hooker.

it really just depends on the situation, but being in a relationship means 50/50, so if she's happy and you're happy, then its all good. but if she's the only one happy and nothing is changing, then nothing is gonna change lol. no point in being in a miserable relationship, you would only end up hurting yourself. i hate my advice, too much truth to it, lol.

Definately, definately. Atleast it's early on with this relationship.. I mean I am still very confused though with her.. she sent me this text today after sending a few in the morning, asking when I wanted to talk..

"Baby.. i know what i want. N i know what i need... N yea i dont want anything 2 change with u n me..."

That was after I sent her a text saying that I'm always gonna miss her, and that I'd still atleast love to still be friends no matter what... and that I hope she doesn't feel bad or guilty or anything, just that I hope that she knows what she wants for herself.. and from another..

So basically, I'm left hanging still. I mean she did ask me this morning around like noon if I wanted to chill or something later,.. It's just, idk. Awkward, I'ma let the situation just fizzle down right now, already hitting up a few ladies on myspace, and went and hung out with a buddy of mine and two girls he knows so things aren't totally hopeless for me, and if she does come to her senses and wants to get back I'm sure i'd be down for it, and if not, well atleast now i'm working on something else...