Smoking, childcare, and ruining one's relationship with a threesome

I can not agree with you more, volls.

I'm only 15, my dad left us when I was little. Life isnt as easy when growing up with only one parent(which could very well happen for your child). Klo, I dont know who you are. I can only judge you based upon what you've said. You have your child's life in your hands. You can ruin your childs life. I dont know how to say it to where your shocked by this. Also, I dont know about you guys but if i was in her situation, and my child developed some kind of disorder based on what I was doing, i would not be able to live with myself. Good luck.

I can not agree with you more, volls. I'm only 15, my dad left us when I was little. Life isnt as easy when growing up with only one parent(which could very well happen for your child). Klo, I dont know who you are. I can only judge you based upon what you've said. You have your child's life in your hands. You can ruin your childs life. I dont know how to say it to where your shocked by this. Also, I dont know about you guys but if i was in her situation, and my child developed some kind of disorder based on what I was doing, i would not be able to live with myself. Good luck.

I hear that, although my parents didn't split after I was 18.

Kids pick up all sorts of vibes from their parents, even if it's well hidden. Kids actually have some acute senses if they ever stop and use them.

My dad smoked pot and crack and meth and everything around me when I was little.

I told my mom he was making his own cigarettes and i expained how he did it, i said he put his stuff in it and rolled it up and licked it. Its very fortunate that I am smart enough to make my own healthy decisions. I know whats good for me. I cant say i've never gotten drunk or smoked or anything like that but i can definitly say that I now that I know what its like, its not worth throwing my life away for.

"An enlightened man is one who has found something more interesting than sex."

I forgot who stated that, but it can easily apply to many vices, drugs included in my eyes.