Leaving your comfort zone

I don't understand what you're asking. What's so bad about liking certain things and sticking to those things? Just because I eat pizza 3 times a week doesn't mean I can't try new things and still eat pizza. I love pizza, I love trying new things, I have FOOD HARMONY.

Well food harmony is different then what im trying to get at. This group of girls is like the black plague. I have been interested in this girl now for some time, and she knows it, but since she is friends with my old ex i know nothing is going to happen. This group makes me rethink everything i do, especially in the way i speak to this girl, and im just tired of being involved with the drama it causes in my life. But because i have been friends with them for 2 1/2 years now, i feel obligated to stick around, when i know i shouldnt be there anymore. I have other friends, but like i said, i tend to gravate to this group after being away from them. i just want to know how to break it off with them and not feel like a total dick.