New assa build ?

ok im building an assa but my problem is: i dont want to become a trapsin and i dont like a ww-sin

so i have this un-complete build (think it sux, but who cares, i play for fun *looks at 'someone')

max claw mast
1 into Weapon Block
1 into Mind Blast
1 into BoS
1 into Fade
1 into venom (?????)
10-15 Cloak of Shadows
some into Shadow Warrior (well, ill probably use it for pvm, rushing etc. so i may need a (second) tank)

and this is where i need some aid: i dont know shit about martial arts, so whats best for pvm ?????

items:

primary: 2 claws, dont know which ones (prob fury/chaos ?)
secondary: hoto and claw +skill claw (is that possible ?)
armor: enigma (any suggestions which one ??? im thinking of wire fleece/scarab husk... mayb mesh)
jewelry: buls ? angelic amu+ring ?
boots: shadows ?? nats ???
belt: dunno, buggy siggards ??? mayb perfect string or arachnids
gloves: no idea... id say souldrainers
helm: shako ?
Shadow skillers
Anni

merc:
no idea... act2 nightmare defensive perhaps ?