Items ppl have

hi, I was wondering how the heck people get like 20 sojs. I know most people trade godly's which is like a 1 socketed shield with like 212 defence with massive resists. and I like a defence of 240 bone helm socketed with like a p ruby with wicked good mods. but how the heck do ppl get all these items. I can never get godlys. and I want godlys to be able to trade for sojs. Any tips that ppl have to help me get sojs and godlys and stuff pls tell me. thanks.