You're wasting your time. Make a new char and GM Fencing, grab 2 weapons: a spear or short spear, and you're in business, and can do a hell of a lot more damage then you ever will with wrestling.
Actually, at this stage in the shard's youth he's right Kali. A GM fighting skill will kill more people than stun. Hell, last night I sat outside town with just a q-staff and 20 aids (no armor) and put down warriors with shields and colored armor. The only mage that I actually whiffed on was Larloch and he was wearin a load of armor.
At this point people aren't out looking to duel or fight, so stun isn't really useful atm.
"Two hands working do more than a thousand praying."
... How can people stun doesn't account for damage I don't get it. I mean seriously. Ok, so, Exp poison arrow stun exp EB isn't as good as Ching ching ching Ching? The first combo is death unless they pot, the ching ching ching is worthless to any mage who knows what he's doing. ( Unless all four hits are para blows or something, fat chance. )