Death

A black cat...just stiff and lifeless on the side of the road...that's when I heard a voice inside my head becon me to go home. Pleading I go home for my own good! I should have listend...the voice, after 15 minutes, hit my stomach, then back up to my heart...I knew something was wrong.

7:15'ishpm 4-15-03: I get a call from a friend wanting to know if I was all right...there was a car reck down the road from her.

7:30pm 4-15-03: Another call from the same person telling that it was Krystal Valenswiala and that she was going to be fine.

11:00 pm same night I get another call from Kissryn, "Kristy there is something I think you should know before school tomarrow and I just can't bring myself to say it over the phone."

I get the msg when I wake up the next morning, not thinking of the obvious answer...our dear Krystal had died w/ two broken ribs slicing her organs open, blood in her lungs and brain, and trying to respond to the voluntiers trying to help her w/ blood garggling out of her mouth, ripping every word apart.
Death...how do we deal w/ it? or make sence of it?...I have to drive down that road everyday...It didn't hit me that she was gone forever until I saw the tourturing black marks of her meak white cougar...:*(
I just don't understand how it's 2 weeks before prom and 6 weeks before graduation and she just dies...


anyway...I just wanted to tell you guys...I figure you'll understand ... and pls don't post any jackass remarks or anything...this is really horrible...It's like watching a horror movie and then relising it's real...

My condolences, How close were you to her?

Yeah, I know how you feel. This kid at our school was dared on the telephone to act like he was hanging himself. He was like whatever, and did it. The chair slid out from underneath him and he died within minutes. He died in 8th grade.

I'm really sorry 2 here that. My condolences 2 her family and friends.

We weren't like best friends or anything...but she was one of the popular girls at our school who would talk to everybody!!! she was sooo sweet and had sooo much ahead of her...When we were in JR. High we played baseball together and talked some...but we have a very small school so everyone is being eat up about this :*(

No one ever likes hearing a story like that. Death can bring out a lot of emotions, and I just hope that everyone can come together and help eachother get through times like these.

I feel really sad now.

The only thing I can think of to ease the pain of death is what we all want to happen after death. To go to heaven and see people you've missed so much. To see your grandparents. To meet your creator. To blissfully wait for those close to you in life to join you in the afterlife.

death does indeed suck. but what would i have to look forward to when i die being i dont believe god exists?

"death comes to us all" , you dont have to eb afraid of death, afterall it is also a part of life.....

death does indeed suck. but what would i have to look forward to when i die being i dont believe god exists?

I'd rather not make this a religious issue. However, many of us do believe in an afterlife. If you choose to exclude yourself, and to believe that after life, you simply cease to exist, suit yourself. That's probably the scariest thing I can think of. I, on the other hand, believe in God and in Heaven.

Allah and Paradise?

Please don't fight...this is not the kind of msg to creat a fight...I picked my words very carefully so no one would fight :*(....

I went to her funeral today...and it was the worst thing I'd ever seen in my life...:*(

Death makes me think that life is pointless. Like this story. She's so close to graduation and just dies. Everything she worked for is gone.

I'd rather not make this a religious issue. However, many of us do believe in an afterlife. If you choose to exclude yourself, and to believe that after life, you simply cease to exist, suit yourself. That's probably the scariest thing I can think of. I, on the other hand, believe in God and in Heaven.

Not to drag out what you are saying in this thread, but I don't think you quite understood what he was saying. I thought that he meant it must suck for people that don't believe in God for the exact reason you stated, not that he didn't believe in God.

Death makes me think that life is pointless. Like this story. She's so close to graduation and just dies. Everything she worked for is gone.

Yeah this is probably the second thing that came to mind when I thought about it...I was driving home and hit the curve where she roled and it just came to me

Not to drag out what you are saying in this thread, but I don't think you quite understood what he was saying. I thought that he meant it must suck for people that don't believe in God for the exact reason you stated, not that he didn't believe in God.

actually he was right on the money.

I have a friend who's father was beaten to death on his birthday not too long ago, and the police didnt even charge the murderer with ANYTHING, NOTHING, AT ALL, even though the autopsy determined it was homocide.
And I have a friend who I've been talking out of suicide for a week and a half, her life has been fucked up and she's been suicidal for a while now, but also her friend just commited suicide recently.
We all deal with it in different ways, just find a good way to deal with yours.

P.S. - Bob, I agree about not wanting to make this into a religious thread, but sometimes the truth is scarier than what people want to believe. That there's a big fat comfy chair in the clouds waiting for them after death. I just had to respond to that. And no, I am not saying that EITHER of us is right.

I know how you feel, i too have lost friends and its a horrible thing to go through. My condolences are with you.