What can I do?

What can i do to draw more positive attention to myself at school?

Everyday i go to school do work and dont sociallize w/ barely anyone. I am not a bad person it's just that since i am not in any little group i am not really heard out or listened to. I sometimes feel like I'm on the verge of suicide but refuse to go that far. I want to go to school and be ,ore noticed and meet more people. I sit on this comp. ALL DAMN DAY and play games and complain. I want my life to start i am almost 17. I am in my prime i gotta have fun b4 my childhood ends.

So can somebody please input positive info and tell me how i can get on my feet.

PS. I realize how desperate and whiny this sounds but i can not get help anywhere else w/o a shrink and i dont want think of this problem as that bad.

Get a job dude, have money, meet people, spend money, meet more people.

But seriously, I wouldn't look to the internet to solve your real life personal problems.

I have a job but what use is money if no one is willing tofind out u have it. And i know that the internet is not good for that but i tried asking some of my friends they dont try to understand and think i am being a baby and i need to "get over it." And i dont wanna sound like i am mentally ill by going to a shrink.

Bring a full fledged D&D 3rd edition set to lunch and request a bard, a rouge and a mage.

Get this program for the comp. called Cyber Patrol. Have your parents limit your time on the computer to like 2-3 hours a day. After you've used up your time, you're bound to find something to do.

Get this program for the comp. called Cyber Patrol. Have your parents limit your time on the computer to like 2-3 hours a day. After you've used up your time, you're bound to find something to do.

no, before he got a comp he wouldnt do anything.

Mark, me, jake, and others have told you what you need not to do, and what to do to help. You just take it the wrong way and get pissed.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Say I learn this girls name, and I see her, and she doesn't know me I go. "HELLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO <enter name>!!!!" And she goes, "hi...who are you?" and I go, "I'm Chris." And she goes, "Hello Chris." Simple as that.

Around here when you do that they start screaming and get their boyfriend to beat you up or they yell "RAAAAAAAAAPE" or something.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Oh man, I was like this... Whoa, I completely changed. One of my biggest fears in the world was breath problem. God, was I afraid of that. Not anymore, soon realized my breath doesn't smell. And that, when I was a lil kid I was made fun of it, and I was traumatized, for life. Till I reached 16. I Got over it, and started to talk. Right now, I find out, I crack people up, and people LOVE to be with me. Though, sometimes I'm in a class were I don't know anyone. But most of the time we're just working. But, besides the fact. My problem was always the breath. Man, I was dumb, hiding myself from the world. Haha, well anyway dude. All you need to do is. Make one friend. Meet the friend's, friend, then meet their friend's friend. And then so on, and so on. Once you make a couple of friends, and decide you feel comfortable with your own personality, going up to new people wont be such a drag. This is what I do. Say I learn this girls name, and I see her, and she doesn't know me I go. "HELLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO <enter name>!!!!" And she goes, "hi...who are you?" and I go, "I'm Chris." And she goes, "Hello Chris." Simple as that. Then keep working at it, and become friends with her, then meet her friends, etc etc. Its very easy.... Hope this helps!

I showed him to my friends, that I thought he could get along with... and they are "cool" with him, but he argues to much, goes into these "im depressed and dont want to do shit" modes. He always thinks we single him out when we do a joke on him, which we do to each other all the time. He thinks we treat him as the "bitch", but we don't. Like you said, you got over your breath probly, there are issues he just needs to "get over". Then he takes it the wrong way, and makes a post like he just did saying it in a different way.

Ahh yes, if you can't have friends you can act gothic.

Shinto, do you even know what gothic means? I really doubt you're actually gothic.

Oh man, I was like this... Whoa, I completely changed. One of my biggest fears in the world was breath problem. God, was I afraid of that. Not anymore, soon realized my breath doesn't smell. And that, when I was a lil kid I was made fun of it, and I was traumatized, for life. Till I reached 16. I Got over it, and started to talk. Right now, I find out, I crack people up, and people LOVE to be with me. Though, sometimes I'm in a class were I don't know anyone. But most of the time we're just working. But, besides the fact. My problem was always the breath. Man, I was dumb, hiding myself from the world. Haha, well anyway dude. All you need to do is. Make one friend. Meet the friend's, friend, then meet their friend's friend. And then so on, and so on. Once you make a couple of friends, and decide you feel comfortable with your own personality, going up to new people wont be such a drag. This is what I do. Say I learn this girls name, and I see her, and she doesn't know me I go. "HELLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO <enter name>!!!!" And she goes, "hi...who are you?" and I go, "I'm Chris." And she goes, "Hello Chris." Simple as that. Then keep working at it, and become friends with her, then meet her friends, etc etc. Its very easy.... Hope this helps!

Did you try gum? I don't know, I heard that helps.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Go up to someone.

"Would you like a slice of gum?"

Go up to a little kid and rip his arms off. That makes the ladies like you.

So, pretty much, hes the kind of person that is depressed, emo, and a pansy. That no one wants to be around with. How about his cloths. Does he feel comfortable with the way he dresses... I mean, there has to be at least one thing he doesn't like about himself, that he can try and fix. Or, he just needs to loose-in up...

He dresses fine. I think he should work out, this way he can gain respect from people that already know him as a small kid(he isnt small, but he rubs off that way). I mean I look at him still as the little kid I met next door when I look at him. Then he stands next to me and he is the same height if not taller.

He also overeacts to stuff... gets really angry over something small... that is one thing people tell me that they hate about him.



PS.I also think he compares himself to me to much... even if he admits it or not.

People notice that when he does something, his goal is to do it better than me. I mean we play games and I beat him, I beat him in mind games... arguments and I think it drops his self-image. He needs to relize... hey its dustin, and I am me, does it matter if I beat him or not? NO!

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Well, lets not label me (people call me Goth). I am Christopher. I dress in black (its what I feel comfortable in. And I have my own style, not stealing from anyone in cloths. Make my own braclets, and crap), and I believe in Daemons, and hell. And I'm pretty fucked up in the head. I've been through this whole Daemon shit, I've been into magic. And I'm about to go into it again. I once worshiped the devil, and talked to my Daemon. I have my Daemon name carved into my skin (funny, it wasn't even deep, but its still clear as day). I uhm, have friends support telling me, they actually felt, and saw this Daemon spirit. Yes, I believe in Satan. I use to have this Daemon that tried to kill me. Thats why I left Zelaron, to much depressed states. Tried to kill myself twice. Thought about it a lot.

Holy shit?

So, pretty much, hes the kind of person that is depressed, emo, and a pansy. That no one wants to be around with. How about his cloths. Does he feel comfortable with the way he dresses... I mean, there has to be at least one thing he doesn't like about himself, that he can try and fix. Or, he just needs to loose-in up...

#1 i am not a pansy #2 i would make friends if i was not socially incompetant i say the right things most the time but the tone of voice and facial expressions fuck it up second of all if u are a goth how do girls find u interesting i almost became i goth and things got worse.

oh and Acer so many ppl say that the best thing to do is not take your advice so that is one reason i dont do it.

He dresses fine. I think he should work out, this way he can gain respect from people that already know him as a small kid(he isnt small, but he rubs off that way). I mean I look at him still as the little kid I met next door when I look at him. Then he stands next to me and he is the same height if not taller. He also overeacts to stuff... gets really angry over something small... that is one thing people tell me that they hate about him. PS.I also think he compares himself to me to much... even if he admits it or not. People notice that when he does something, his goal is to do it better than me. I mean we play games and I beat him, I beat him in mind games... arguments and I think it drops his self-image. He needs to relize... hey its dustin, and I am me, does it matter if I beat him or not? NO!

there is dustin trying to make himself seem like someone to envy

Well, you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. This is my advice. You all ditch him, and leave him friendless, and make HIM make friends.

I do wann be helped why do u think i posted the thread moron!Acer is a personal friend of mine and he is the only one whoever spoke to me about it i dont like his advice thats why i am asing diff opinions.

fuck u bitch. I posted this thread so i could get positive feedback on my problems and u put me down. You no what i am not a goth but i have a gun and if i saw u in my face today i would kill your cock suckin ass.