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Willkillforfood

Willkillforfood said:

I'm not entirely a traditionalist but I think that if my girl wanted to go out, drink, and dance then I better be with her or she better be dancing with her girlfriends and not random guys. Otherwise that relationship probably would not last too long. It's asking for trouble and it's a nice red flag. Whether or not you -know- you're going to do something, it's not right for you to go out and do that when it bothers your signifigant other with GOOD REASON.

You're with the guy that cheated on you. That sucks. But if you want a relationship to work you can't hold grudges because that's not how a relationship should be. You do what you want and enjoy the arguments that ensue because I'll have to agree with Kaneda on this one. He can be quite a dick but he has very sound reasoning for this. Relationships involve comprimises and you know you can do something fun that doesn't have to involve the company of some dumbass calling you and asking you if you'd cheat or not ...haha.

Ok, you know such little about the situation. I would LOVE to have Kaneda come out with me. He hates the club scene unless he's with someone else. he's never even tried to go w.me, and believe me I have BEGGED him! It's not a random guy, and he knows i have boundries and limits. Yes dance, No grabbing or other activities.

You don't know what our conversation was about and we were talking about relationships going wrong when that came up.

AND, it seems to me that you guys are forgetting a VERY important part to this story, Kaneda told me he wanted to move out and end it earlier that day...and i STILL didn't fuck someone else. Kaneda hasn't even argued a point here so how are you with him? Yea, he was upset when he found out a guy ended up coming...but he's gone to softball-drinks with girls he works with, where's the difference, honostly?

This thread was supposed to be about weekends. Kaneda and I already talked about what happened and everything.