I have you say you have a somewhat respectable world view. Your problem is that you are drawing conclusions about things that you can only speculate on. A wise thinker once said "You never understand a situation until you are faced with it."

In other words, it's easy to draw conclusions when you are looking in from the outside. It's also easy for those conclusions to be entirely wrong. People often say "I would never do _____" when what they really mean to say is "I've never been put in a situation or put myself in a situation where I had to do _____"

Another quote I really like is "Judge not lest ye be judged thyself." What I do to myself is my choice, not yours, and I have reasons for everything I do, even if they don't make sense to you or you don't agree with them. If you are attempting to label me or force me to do something I don't want to do or force me to stop doing something I want to do, and I'm not harming you in any way, you are out of place in my opinion. Our decisions are ultimately what makes us human, and taking away any human's ability to make decisions for themself is as much murder as putting a bullet in someone's brain, by my definition.