I find a bitchslap and a command is often quicker.

But seriously, I haven't the foggiest. Work comes before hos, and my calendar is pretty full. Having said that, I'm taking next weekend off from working to take part in a College production, which she's also doing - both of us in the pit band. No, I'm not following her - I wanted to do it last year, but couldn't find the time, so I'm doing it this year. Just so happens that she had the same idea.