anyway.. i ended up meeting this guy, who was a total jackass, asked him to leave my girlfriend alone ( left violence out as long as i could).. and he got right up in my face and told me he can do whatever the hell he wants to her. i just headbutted him as hard as i could which knocked his ass on the ground and left me with a nice headache. after that he just stared at me like he was some kind of retard and walked off. tough shit he was.