Both of you are right. However when stating someone who is obese you should say fat instead of giving a number of lbs. Wallow. I see 454 lb. muscle men lol. You should say over fat or obese. Anyways the point is that parents need to either make their kids exercise (possibly do it with them to bond) or if their kid is a gamer type and doesn't like sports because they are boring you should take away his unhealthy and overly fatty foods. The problem isn't that parents don't feel they can be bothered with it but rather that they can't. Most people can't even take charge and keep cool in emergencies how can they possibly do it with their own kids? Parents are also scared shitless that some jackass will call the cops on them just because they won't buy their kid some ice cream. That happened back in Salem when our neighboors starting harrassing some guy because he didn't want his kid having ice cream. It's pretty sad when people think not caving into your kids demands no matter how unhealthy is abuse these days eh?