20 years old? WHOOOA good for you. You may be a year older than me but at least I'm not as ignant as you are. In your first post you made it sound as though you say they are asking for it. So if you dont want your words to be taken wrongly I suggest you think about how you word things.
Seriously. You said in your post "Well most of them ask for it" as if you are justifying your actions. Why should we believe you? Hmmm?