I dunno about all this but serously I have gotten pretty close to fingering lauren and we have made out but thats besides the point. Anyways, if any guy touched her the way I do while we are going out then id be pretty pissed and im only 13. But, im not an asshole really, and my friend Garrett had a dream about him cheating on his gf for lauren, and i told her about it and wondered if it could ever come true and she said "not in this lifetime", but anyways back to your case, I think you should do exactly what sov says lol