The Truth
 

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Different girls are different. Thinking you can do any one thing and get them all is likely the kind of thinking that will keep you from ever having a meaningful relationship.

I would say this only works with immature girls, I think the mature ones are slightly more complicated than this. There's always some sort of 'x' factor.

True enough. I can think of one girl in particular who is totally not in this category.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Yeah. Because now that I think of it, I can also think of four girls that are all dating dick-of-the-year (all different years, but they're still all dicks, non-the-less). It's really annoying, because they're all sweet girls and it doesn't make any sense.

My experience: sweet/shy/bashful girls want to be wooed. Nice guy with a dash of cocky works here. Tough/arrogant/bitchy girls love to be dominated. Confident and assertive with a pinch of sweet occasionally surfacing works best here.

People that are into bedroom power play generally act the opposite of their social role in life. If a girl is super aggressive, she probably loves to submit to a stronger man. If a guy is a macho war mongering repub, he's probably someone's gimp.

this.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

That.

lol...