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ignorance, or being ignored?
i'm sad, depressed, and most of all pissed off.
People ignore me, a lot, but not the usual self. I'm talking, they seem to look away, if they talk to me, it lasts for a few seconds, then they look away and change face automatically as if my words don't matter. 1 girl had the audacity to say to another guy "what'd he just say, right in my face" like hello! I changed a lot, i'm a gentleman, i don't go around bullshitting people. I turned into a very quiet person, i don't talk much, i respond if i'm spoken too, but if i suddenly talk they just act as if i'm not there. My mom told me to "be funner to be with" well i guess that's the problem i don't like talking like some fake ass moron, to get attention. sucks being a non-ignorant, mtv listening, brain using cunt eh? |
"Learning to be fake and how to put yourself at the top of the list of the people you are around is a skill that is only learned with time and only perfected with awesomeness." -D3V
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I'd try to hang out with different people. When a group is not really interested in you, and you don't want to try and fit in, there's really not much you could do. Especially when it actually has an effect on you making you "sad, depressed, and pissed off." Not a lot of people would want to hang out with someone like that.
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Well, no offense Kyeruu, but if you acted in school like you act-ed (hopefully you have changed) here, you probably don't have a very good reputation. Back in 7th grade, I was the meaning of obnoxious. I would brag, I would insult people out of the blue, and I would just say things without thinking.
Let's just say I've come a long way. But during the transition which was mostly in 8th grade, I was really quiet. I guess people's reactions towards me and my bad reputation shut me up. The best advice I can give you Kyeruu is to continue doing what you're doing: act like a gentleman and be nice. Eventually, people will look at you in a different light and you'll start forming friendships again. |
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I don't really get it actually. If you're being yourself, why aren't you happy? You don't really need "friends" to have a good time, you can just hang out with them as a classmate.. And if you're not being yourself, and is currently in a transitional period, then you'll eventually get out of it. |
Start rumors about how you've had sex with a couple different hot girls at school, then tell all the dudes in the shcool that she has 3 nipples or something and you'll be set.
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What is it? This may potentially be a question you ask yourself to make evident what the problem is. Now, would it stand to re- ason to say you are a member of western civilization, have been a member of said society during your encounter with this sort of internal flaw, and plan to be so for the remainder of your earthly existence? It is clear from your first description you are referring to people in the Western Hemisphere, now constitut- ing the majority of this planet. A people who ask the question, "What is it he just said?" appeal to snobbery, as "if X does not associate their self with appropriate behavioral patterns they are a danger to The Group." This should be taken as a personal matter, as it contra vents your human rights. In other words, you must fit in with the myths, trends and attitudes or else, "Your diversity does not agree with The Group. The law of sym- pathy therefore does not apply to you. If you do not do as you are expected, you should not be accepted, nor should any such person." Of course, that would work if the population does not change (come to think of it, this nightmare of a reality would be so exclusive as to the members it receives, the friction diversity could pose would be so great it would start to look for adversity in pointless issues such as difference in opinion. Surprise). You are deserving of love, respect; you have interesting stories to tell and have time to listen to other people's stories. Now it seems that the acceptable western behavioral model is this tendency to have female rulers. Indeed, this under rates intellectual capability in favor of the perceived potential to tap extreme responses on the part of, certainly, men in the population. Overlook circumstances and behaviors that contribute to alienation from the community. The zelaron forum Introduce Yourself comes with the caption, "Introduce yourself here to give a good first im- pression... before people get the wrong idea." But is it that you actively try not to give the wrong impression, or rather, people specifically in western cultures begin to view you in a way you do not agree with? Certainly, you have an impact on that, but they hold the responsibility completely by their own choice by showing no resistance to developing the wrong view. A key element to friendship is addressing each others emotional health first. So, these types could not be good friends. Destructive feelings of isolation and low self esteem do not contribute to feelings of self worth. As an individual, you desperately need to mobilize and en- force a variety of approaches to end in group inclusion. |
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who ever said anything about school, i'm homeschooled, seriously, it's like i don't even exist, i'm going to get a new job, its' important (a subject i'll also have to elaborate on later) and frankly, no one pays attention to me, like um mdselctr said, with his hard to read text.
if i don't follow or conform to a certain trend i'm excluded, that's unfair and bullshit. I'm not going to imitate your little, fail attempt at being an individual T_T and as the fact of NOT having friends, it IS important, psychologically it is. i need someone to communicate with, otherwise my brain goes haywire, i have my family but that might end soon, so yeah : ( |
I don't understand (Or should I say, I do not comprehend?).
How different are you from other people anyway? When you said the problem of you can't be "funner to be with" is because you "don't like talking like some fake ass moron, to get attention" [sic], I got to say, is that your idea of fun? If you expect people to suddenly come and befriend you, without you even making an effort, then I definitely don't think that things will work out. |
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So, how are things? Did anything change?
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I know of a permanent solution for your temporary problems...
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I guess the solution worked.
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I know that's a joke, but you guys are really cruel.
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Nobody is perfect. Unless you like people who are cruel. In that case I am perfect.
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Start showing up to school drunk and get kicked out for it = instant popularity.
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