Do you feel like this sometimes?
 

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

I used to. That was a long time ago though, back in Jr. High School...

That was 8 years ago.

I think everyone gets that feeling, its just part of growing up.

Can't say that i have :-\

Nope, me either. Might be because everyone I know loves me, though.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Hey Shinto... do something crazy in public or punch an old lady. It may make you feel better.

I get that feelin too.

Everything and everyone is ugly. Everyone is going to feel ugly. Everyone sees ugly. It's a fact of life, unless you have a huge ego or cannot see.

Well Carmen Electra was lookin pretty good in the last pic of her I saw...

Wow, that's a pretty jaded outlook. I actually happen to like my appearance. Sure, I'd like it if my fucking hair would grow faster, and I could stand to lose some of the extra weight I've accumulated over the last year or so, but otherwise, I like the way I look.

I don't think it's egotistical or vain at all to appreciate the way you look. Egotism comes from obsession over the way you look. Egotism is a mindset that manifests in your behavior. If you think you're better than someone else just because you're in better physical condition, that is when egotism sets in. Just simply being confident enough to say "I'm an attractive person" isn't egotism, it's healthy.

Shinto, I don't think it's your appearance that has you so upset. The fact is, there's nothing wrong with the way you look. You don't have a giant goiter growing out of your forehead. You don't have horrendous facial scarring ala Freddy Krueger. You look just fine. Whatever is bugging you has nothing to do with your appearance.

I dont mind the way I look.. i wouldnt mind looking as big as arnold shwartz whatever... but aslong as my gf likes the way i look i dont care who thinks im ugly.. thats how i work anyway.. but b4 her i thought of myself as just average... go see in the pic section -_^

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Originally Posted by Raziel I'd like it if my fucking hair would grow faster

We really have something in common.

I wish my hair would grow slower :( or not at all...would save some money from that barber every 4 fucking weeks.

There are days that I look fucked up, but not so bad that I would kill myself about it, and feeling ugly on teh inside..hmm maybe that 1 time when I ate 4 big fat burrito's, oh man that must've been ugly, it certainly was when it came out again :x

Nope, never felt like this before. I'm a pimp.

Yeah, I'm with ya on that one I already have long hair and I don't really mind the way I look. I've got some Acne that I wish weren't there but I think that will go away if I spent more time in sunlight, otherwise Im fine with the way I look. O yeah I wish my teeth were straighter too that'd be nice.

Not really.

Preach on, Brother Raz!

My hair is growing too slow. I'm currently stuck with the 'Backstreet Boy' length while trying to grow it long... :mad:

Never really feel that way. I honestly don't think it is a healthy thought either, so don't listen to anyone that says that is normal. Not being completely content with your physical appearance isn't abnormal, but if it gets to the point of you wanting to physically harm yourself because of it, very abnormal.

I've felt that way before, but I kind of look at it like Ex-Mania now. I got my girlfriend, and she's all that matters.