Pre-Marital Sex
 

This topic has been in the shout box for sometime now but I got tired of the auto refresh messing up my shout so I thought it would be best talked about here too get everyones viewpoints.

I don't disagree with you on that whole save it for someone you love thing but I just seen it go bad too many times too agree with it (but it goes bad often times either way). For Example my cousin got married when he was 17 too this 20 year old and they only did it too avoid being "immoral" as you put it, but now they have a kid and they both hate each other and want too be single again. Now they got a whole lot of life left where they are just going to be struggling to survive with each other. On the other hand you have single parents being stupid but it all is really dictated on the person. The unresponsible people fuck it up for the rest and little hoodrats that'll do anything too get pregnant so you don't leave em.

Heh, when morals are argued, there is always the obvious side that will win (Well, usually). Its just too bad that morals aren't laws or something is enforced in everyday life. Just because it immoral, doesn't mean it wrong, or not condoned by millions upon millions of people.

Facts are facts, and the fact of the matter is, Pre-marrital sex is practice by an immense population in the world, and is very pleasurable and exciting for most anyone who has experienced it.

If this was a moral vote, pre-marital sex is wrong, if this is an opinionation vote, pre-marital sex is the fucking bomb!

I say ur ready to have sex when you're mature enough...i dont know how that is to be determined but once ur mature enough it's fine. I dont find it immoral if you are still being true to one woman married or not.

I believe the correct reason it is immoral to the people who view it as immoral is because that it is done before marriage. It is not because they may not be with the same partner for the rest of their lives, but because that it is done without the unity of marriage.

Nah, they just can't get laid so they spend the gap of time they have left to bitch about people that can.

This is a topic I think about most everyday...Why don't I have sex before marrage? well why don't I?...I don't want to be treated like a whore!...God and my family would look down upon me, I don't want sex to make up a guys mind if he loves me or not (top reason) I don't want to have a child...if I get married and do have a baby I want to know he'll be there...I want it to be the most memorable thing I do and I don't want it to just be a hobby...
I'll have to agree w/ Jason on this one...it's much more romantic if a guy is a virgin and says that he only wants to be w/ one person.

I like the way you look at the whole situation, stay with it and don't change for anything. Damn Bob you may just have the best wedding gift of all time o_O

Fun Fact - Most of the men that cheat on their wife did not have sexual intercourse with any other women before they got married.

Then the man never really loved her and he is just being selfish...damn where did love go...really...you marry because you're in love...not because you want to have sex...

Now, i agree with silver and bob completly , now i cant look at in exactly the same way as them because i personly am not , but i am still with the only person ive ever been with. it should be a total love commitment, and yes you should wait till marriage , and yes i do probably sound like i big hippocrit. but most of all you should do whats in your heart and NOT what yuor body wants , and that my friends is what makes it speacial

Bad punctuation and capitalization, but good thought. Thank you.

if you are man enough to have pre-marital sex, you should also be man enough to face the music when you fucked it up.

Pre-marital sex doesn't bug me on a moral basis, but it does on a personal basis. Frankly, I could give a rats ass what anyone else chooses to do in regard to their sex life. I've had full-blown intercourse once and will not do it again until I am married. Once again, it's not a moral thing. There's just too much risk involved, protected or not.

Now, that doesn't rule out other activity. I'm simply saving that one thing for marriage.

How to please a woman? Love her, buy her gifts, miss the superbowl for her, buy her jewelry, act like you're interested in what she's talking about. How to please a man? Show up naked, bring bear.


God that is truthful. Also, there's always abortions if you do mess up. But, havent you ever noticed that the people who are so adamantly against abortions are so ugly you wouldn't want to touch them in the first place?

I think most meen prefer beer over bear.

Also, I don't really like abortions to be honest. I know a girl who had an abortion at 14... If you fuck up, you should have to deal with it.

ood point on the whole be man enough to face what u did
but if i fucked up i would fucking leave the country or something so guess im not man enough :/

That is a sensitive subject....

But I think that abortions are acceptable in certain circumstances... Like the fourteen year old girl.. What kind of life would that child live??

What about rape victims?..

I saw a bumper sticker that made alot of sense it read;

"If you can't trust me with a choice, how can you trust me with a child?"

The thing is that it wasn't a rape.

She had been having sex for a while, and I think that if you're going to do that at that young of an age, then you just have to man up if you get pregnant. Maybe the child would have had a hard time in life, but if I had the option of a difficult childhood or not existing... well.. it's not a difficult choice.