Do you feel like this sometimes?
 

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

I used to. That was a long time ago though, back in Jr. High School...

That was 8 years ago.

I think everyone gets that feeling, its just part of growing up.

Can't say that i have :-\

Nope, me either. Might be because everyone I know loves me, though.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Hey Shinto... do something crazy in public or punch an old lady. It may make you feel better.

I get that feelin too.

Everything and everyone is ugly. Everyone is going to feel ugly. Everyone sees ugly. It's a fact of life, unless you have a huge ego or cannot see.

Well Carmen Electra was lookin pretty good in the last pic of her I saw...

Wow, that's a pretty jaded outlook. I actually happen to like my appearance. Sure, I'd like it if my fucking hair would grow faster, and I could stand to lose some of the extra weight I've accumulated over the last year or so, but otherwise, I like the way I look.

I don't think it's egotistical or vain at all to appreciate the way you look. Egotism comes from obsession over the way you look. Egotism is a mindset that manifests in your behavior. If you think you're better than someone else just because you're in better physical condition, that is when egotism sets in. Just simply being confident enough to say "I'm an attractive person" isn't egotism, it's healthy.

Shinto, I don't think it's your appearance that has you so upset. The fact is, there's nothing wrong with the way you look. You don't have a giant goiter growing out of your forehead. You don't have horrendous facial scarring ala Freddy Krueger. You look just fine. Whatever is bugging you has nothing to do with your appearance.

I dont mind the way I look.. i wouldnt mind looking as big as arnold shwartz whatever... but aslong as my gf likes the way i look i dont care who thinks im ugly.. thats how i work anyway.. but b4 her i thought of myself as just average... go see in the pic section -_^

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Originally Posted by Raziel I'd like it if my fucking hair would grow faster

We really have something in common.

I wish my hair would grow slower :( or not at all...would save some money from that barber every 4 fucking weeks.

There are days that I look fucked up, but not so bad that I would kill myself about it, and feeling ugly on teh inside..hmm maybe that 1 time when I ate 4 big fat burrito's, oh man that must've been ugly, it certainly was when it came out again :x

Nope, never felt like this before. I'm a pimp.

Yeah, I'm with ya on that one I already have long hair and I don't really mind the way I look. I've got some Acne that I wish weren't there but I think that will go away if I spent more time in sunlight, otherwise Im fine with the way I look. O yeah I wish my teeth were straighter too that'd be nice.

Not really.

Preach on, Brother Raz!

My hair is growing too slow. I'm currently stuck with the 'Backstreet Boy' length while trying to grow it long... :mad:

Never really feel that way. I honestly don't think it is a healthy thought either, so don't listen to anyone that says that is normal. Not being completely content with your physical appearance isn't abnormal, but if it gets to the point of you wanting to physically harm yourself because of it, very abnormal.

I've felt that way before, but I kind of look at it like Ex-Mania now. I got my girlfriend, and she's all that matters.

I don't think everyone feels ugly all the time, but it's bound to happen a few times in your life at least.

Well, true enough as that may be, suicidal thoughts are never normal, when they are serious..

Same, maybe we should throw a "Laugh at depressed people" party.

I really felt like killing myself when me and my friends were throwing bottle rockets at cars on a highway at 3 o clock in the morning and after a few hours a cop came and we ran but he got one of my friends and I got in a shitload of trouble and I could have got a felony ( running from the police is a felony in my state which I did not know ) but the cop was nice and let us off, but my parents were pretty pissed for a long time and I thought it would be better not to live.

My hair doesn't grow down, it grows up. I end up with a white man's second rate afro.

I know that feeling well. I remember days where I looked in the mirror and said "You're not fucking worth the effort" and the many thoughts about death to myself. I can't remember the amount of times I"ve planned suicide. I've lost count of times where I almost did it. I know this, never look in the mirror when you are depressed. It will tell you things that are untrue.

I also remember days where I felt like I was betrayed and unloved...those days hurt the most. Those days I really came close.

But I've learned to look at things a little more positively, yet keeping my darkness. It scares me that I have my dark side still...but I try not to feed it at all.

I don't understand you people. It's like, even if I wanted to, I'd be too lazy to do it.

Or I'd pull a tycho.

Humans dont deserve to live, Destroying what is left of the earths inhabitants.
Arabs, Japs & Afghani's need to die.

we dont respect animals anymore. we kill them untill there is no more.
and pollute their lives with fear & Hatred.

Whoa now. Why just Arabs and Japanese?

People are people. We all have different cultures and appearence, but we're basically all the same race.

People are not perfect. God knows we aren't. Evil is intertwined with human nature. Yes, we destroy. Yes, we kill each other. Yes, some people have done things to harm earth natural state.

I take this all as a side effect of sin, but that's my religious belief. However, how do that actions of some revoke the right to live for others, others who haven't done anything to ruin the world? To judge humanity based on the sins of some is a travesty of itself.

Though it's hard to see through all the quagmire there is beauty in humanity. Every human in of itself is a unique being just like any animal or plant. You can see that sort of thing in an uncorrupted child.

That was totally inspiring and optimistic from a normally cynical person like me.

My hair is about shoulder length at this point, and it's taking fucking forever to grow any longer. I want to get it to about chest-length, but that's probably another year off.

That was the longest run-on sentence ever..

I pay no attention to my own emotions. My feelings are shoved aside, and I just examine everything with a cool head.

Along time ago, I got angry frequently. My teacher refused to let me climb a step ladder, so i threw the ladder across the room. I felt a serious case of uselessness. Then I realized something. I may be ugly, stupid and unpopular, but what the fuck should I care? If the mirror shows an ugly teenage boy that may have no future, I just won't look at that mirror again.