Words of wisdom.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

I'm not much of a reader... so I'm not going to read that ^^ It will only end up bad

The first half of this I have no problem agreeing with.

The second half...what? So if I were in a relationsip with a guy, it would be unacceptable for me to hang out with a guy friend at his home, even if in the company of other friends?

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Okay, I just wanted to clarify. I didn't think you were that kinda guy. ;)

I usually just play the reverse psychology trick and tell her that if she ever does cheat or decides to leave me i'm not going to have a problem finding another girl in a pretty short amount of time, basically slapping her back in the face and telling her she's replaceable, but that I do love her. Works every time.

That would make me incredibly paranoid.

I guess it could. It's more to say hey if you wanna screw around then I can do it to.

It's also like telling a girl who happens to actually be faithful by nature that you could screw around on her anytime you felt like it.

Well if she's at some other dude's house, it's just fair game.

I don't think you understand it from a guy's point of view Jessifer so let me put the shoe on the other foot. Let's pretend you and I are in a high school relationship, and I told you a story about a slutty girl I made out with one time when I was really drunk at a party(I say slutty girl because most all guys are slutty by nature). Now I call you up and tell you me and some of my buddies(you know, my friends you don't like) are gonna go hang out with this girl at my buddy's house. You wouldn't be uncomfortable with this at all?

I hate to say it, but I think grav is right, she's probably boyfriend shopping from the way you make it sound.

I'm still not even worried about it, as bad as it may be made out to be. I think the circumstances still look bad, reviewing it now. But still, that didn't make me mad. The fact that she didn't think it was a big deal, any deal at that, was what made me mad or w/e. It's stupid though, I hate high school girls.

Then again, if she's telling you straight up about it and not trying to hide anything, maybe there is nothing to be worried about? Granted, she should know not to do it at all because it makes you feel uncomfortable, but she just hasn't learned that part about relationships yet.

My point exactly, and hopefully it won't happen again. I talk on here and say one thing, but back in my reality we're still doing great and are happy. Just had a bad day with that last update I suppose. But this is really what I think is going on, and it's just a learning thing, that I was thinking too.

I don't suppose I'll ever get it, seeing as I'm not the jealous type, or a slut, or, then again, have ever been in an actual relationship. So I really can't gauge how I would react.

I never understood highschool relationship drama, even when I was in highschool.

Did you just... burn yourself?:p

I don't understand the dating high school girls. They're still changing rapidly emotionally and socially, and entering a "party phase". Get yourself a girl that's already been in it a while.

No, just stating truth.

The whole story of our relationship is crazy. The funny thing is she had been talking to one of my buddies originaly and didn't end up taking his bait, but I had gone with him one time and we all ate some sushi, and me and her hit it off almost immediately, and the rest is history. So many things have gone in our favor until this point. If things weren't great until now she would be gone, for sure.