How should i split up the statpoints?

Well trail nice to see you finally ended up posting ;)
For stats points keep doing what i always been telling you to do for almost any char. Str for equip your planning to use, dex for 75% ~ blocking (75% with holy shield activated), a little in mana(not needed but less mana potion use) and rest in vit.

Alright...I think ill start my blessed hammy pally, they look fun!

I've got my pally to level 22 right now, lvl 3 zeal and lvl 2 blessed hammer with lvl 5-6 blessed aim and lvl 2 or so vigor.

The zeal owns.

Yes the zeal will own at that level but is it worth wasting skill points on something you wont use later ?
Mostly if you can do very good without it.

I do personaly think anyone could use these skill somewhere else. Like to raise blessed hammer/concentration quicker and have their 4 skill points at higher level to put in a skill that they would actualy enjoy.

Right, nothing other than the Synergies, Hammer, and Conc should be allocated until they are all maxed. Then hit up Holy Shield and/or Redemption.

for blessed hammer i should use faster cast rate right? or would ias do the trick.

Not IAS.

i put one point into meditation which is nice for when i get hit by a mana burn and have no mana becuase it quickly regenerates my mana. on my pally i have found a staff the razor switch or some thing it is a good staff beacuse it give me 80 or so life and about 125 mana, +1 all skills and it give 50 all resist. so i usually use this unless i am surrounded by alot of melee guys.

Casting rate is what you would need.
I know always going for more mana potion can be annoying at time so try getting into runeword and crafting.

Here is what you could use.

Caster Armor, magic light, mage or archon plate + jewel + tal + P. amethyst.

The preset mods are:
Regenerate Mana 4-12%
+10-20 Mana
+1-3 Mana Per Kill(<--this is mostly what will help you)

Caster Glove. magica leather gloves, demonhide gloves or bramble mitts + jewel + ort + P. amethyst.

The preset mods are:
+4-10% Faster Mana Regen
+10-20 Mana
+1-3 Mana Per Kill(<--- again this will be what will help most)

Lore (Runeword )
OrtSol in 2 socket helm

+1 to all skill levels
+2 Mana per Kill(<---)
Lowers Damage by 7
30% Lightning Resistance
+10 Energy
+2 Light Radius

Steel(runeword)
TirEl

+20% Enhanced Damage
+3 Minimum Damage
+3 Maximum Damage
+50 Attack Rating
50% Chance of Open Wounds
+1 light radius
+2 mana per kill(<---)
25% Increased Attack Speed

so with that you get up to 10 mana per kill which is something very helpful.

Oh I am currently working on a Might(Temporary), Zeal, Fanaticisum, and holy shield.

I'm making a sacrifice zeal fanatacism holy shield defiance pally.

couldnt i make a better say 6 socket crystal sword with 2 or 3 tir runes and then put in lum or io runes for life or mana? or maybe even some resist jewels? since a hammer pally doesnt do melee damage the other bonuses arent really needed and i could get more than 2 mana per kill from my weapon.

Heart of Oak. Use that as a weapon.

is heart of oak a unique?

yea heart of oak would own got +3 skill, fcr and good mana mods here is a pic of it off ebay

pic here

Yeah, of course it would but most ppl dont have 6 socket crystal nor that many tir when they start so i figured i would give an easy runeword. :)

i have alot of tir runes i just need to find a 6 socket sword

Well if you find a normal 1 hand weapon that you can use you could always see larzuk and use socket quest.

So if you have a sword that gives +3 mana per kill, that means using hammer too, not just melee attack?